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Maple Love

๐ผ ๐‘”๐‘œ๐“‰ ๐“‰๐‘œ ๐“€๐“ƒ๐‘œ๐“Œ ๐‘€๐“Š๐“‚๐“‚๐“Ž ๐’ข๐“Œ๐‘’๐“ƒ ๐“‰๐’ฝ๐“‡๐‘œ๐“Š๐‘”๐’ฝ ๐“ˆ๐‘œ๐“‚๐‘’ ๐‘œ๐’ป ๐“‚๐“Ž ๐‘’๐“‹๐‘’๐“ƒ๐“‰-๐‘”๐‘œ๐‘’๐“‡๐“ˆ ๐“๐’ถ๐“ˆ๐“‰ ๐“Ž๐‘’๐’ถ๐“‡. ๐’ฎ๐’ฝ๐‘’’๐“ˆ ๐’ถ ๐“‹๐‘’๐“‡๐“Ž ๐’ท๐“Š๐’ท๐’ท๐“๐“Ž ๐“‚๐“Š๐“‚ ๐’ถ๐“ƒ๐’น ๐ผ’๐“‚ ๐’ถ๐“๐“Œ๐’ถ๐“Ž๐“ˆ ๐“Œ๐‘œ๐“Œ๐‘’๐’น ๐’ท๐“Ž ๐’ฝ๐‘œ๐“Œ ๐“ˆ๐’ฝ๐‘’ ๐’ธ๐’ถ๐“ƒ ๐“‚๐’ถ๐“ƒ๐’ถ๐‘”๐‘’ ๐Ÿง ๐“€๐’พ๐’น๐“ˆ!

 

โ„•๐• ๐•จ, ๐•๐•–๐•ฅ’๐•ค ๐•ฃ๐•–๐•’๐•• ๐•™๐•–๐•ฃ ๐•ค๐•ฅ๐• ๐•ฃ๐•ช!

 

I am 30 this year and my hub is 32 . We’ve been together for 14years, married for 9years & we’re parents to 5 beautiful daughters ๐Ÿ˜Š

Back track to 14years ago , It was a normal ordinary day of gaming while i was still Sec 4 and my hubs was waiting to enlist for his NS. So basically i got to know him and we got together because of a silly bet he made with his friends to “jio me” to be his girlfriend within a week (yep, thats how childish we were ! Haha) 
But long story short , our fate was sealed with that 4 maple prepaid game cards bet ๐Ÿคญ๐Ÿคฃ 

When we first got together , things werent easy . Many ups & downs , breaking and getting back .. till we tied the knot, got married & had our first child (daughter) in May 2012. She was the love of our life ! Our #firstborn ~ We basically experience all our first times with her  & along came #2 , just 2 years later . As i always wanted a dragon & horse (chinese saying that both zodiac are good - ้พ™้ฉฌ็ฒพ็ฅž๏ผ‰

Handling 2 babies/ toddler wasnt that easy , especially when we also got our own house in the same year and was abit crazy and messy with all the moving and packing etc etc ~ 

#3/4/5 was definitely a very very special surprise which could ever happen to us ... 

#3 came after 3 years from #2 . So its like restarting all over again after 3 years break . All i could say she’s totally different from her 2 sisters ! And when i thought i could finally rest and have my flat tummy back to myself , here comes the double surprise ! 

When i first found out i was pregnant again, to be honest, i really did think of aborting the baby .. We made the appointment with my gynae and hubs went along with me . We almost wanted to tell my gynae about our decision but she surprised us first with the twins news ... We took a step back and seek for some advises and i suppose you know whats the answer, Twins joined our family in May 2019.. 

At first i was so afraid about how am i going to handle both twins , plus 3 older siblings at home. Alot of questions and doubts keep coming up in my mind which made me super paranoid.. But i am super glad and relieved that i could always count on my hubs to plan and prepare everything for me .  He would always have a plan for everything , even before i tell him anything , he seems to be able to foresee it and plan ahead. Hes my giant pillar of support ๐Ÿ˜

All these while , i never once thought we would be parents to 5 kids or stay married for 9years ๐Ÿคญ .. many asked me how i manage so many kids and stil go to work? Was i trying for a son? Will i still try for a son? Well, i wasnt trying for a son & definitely not going to try anymore.  ๐Ÿคช๐Ÿ˜ฌ

 

 

Personally I think Gwen is very good at time management for sure! So, Anyone up for maple story?